Playing with other people, I get this bizarre high (I feel pretentious calling it "subspace" but maybe that's what people mean by the term??). I can't get that on my own. However, I do enjoy self-bondage, and also anything that stings. It's odd because when other people hit me I prefer thuddy to stingy, but for me-on-me, stingy is fun.

I was on a bus one day and discovered that if you whack yourself hard enough with a Twizzler you can raise these spectacular braided-looking welts on your forearm.