You have all pretty much covered the sex stuff but, what about the day to day D/s stuff. How do those of you with children walk the line between doing what is comfortable and good for you and your partner without skewing the perception that your children have of gender roles? How do you stop from raising a doormat or, bully. Children don't always understand the intricacies of adult relationships and what may be loving to the both of you, could come off as "Daddy always getting his way cause he is more important/strong/male/worthy than Mommy" or vice versa. I have limited my D/s life to sex for the most part because of this very dilemma. I would prefer not to but, I do it in the same way that I get up and make my daughter breakfast even though I am tired. Does anyone here walk that line?