... I will just say that I found no humour whatsoever in Alex's post. I found it offensive.

Wt: It's not personal. I just don't like people carrying on by being openly insulting on these forums. Yes, perhaps my "no account" comment was out of line and I should retract it. However, that is all I will feel unjust about posting. In my opinion, making fun or being insulting to someone because of their weight is immature.

Curtis: The "here" comment to which you refer, I took to mean here, as in, in the BDSM Library Forums. If that's the case, then I take heavy exception to the statement made. My wife is overweight, but she's surely not "fat and ugly" by any stretch of the imagination. If people can't see beyond the skin, then I don't want to read their opinions.

Nikka: The last time I checked, I was not a baby-killing, genocidal fascist with world domination fantasies. So, yes, I took a lot of offense at being called one. I have never locked a child, elderly person, Jew, Slav, Gypsy, infirm, mentally handicapped or deformed person in an oven and burned them to death. I'm sure you might be offended if you were accused of that, too, as calling someone Hitler would imply. So, yes, my remark was sarcastic and justifiably so, given the context by which I was insulted. Why would you want to defend someone that accuses others of being genocidal, megalomaniacal sociopaths?

Bruce: You're right. I probably should have just said "Bite me." Hindsight is 20/20 as they say.


Now, if anyone has to say on the subject of weight, personality and how they relate to BDSM, then please continue.