However, Curtis, I did not find the post humorous myself. To say that women that are in BDSM are fat and ugly implies that I am fat an ugly because am I not a woman involved in BDSM?

Yes, I know that I am larger than what many consider beautiful, but that does not mean that posts such as Alex's do not affect me and my feelings...joke or no joke. I found the post's tone to be mocking and derrogatory and I did not find any humor in it at all... but perhaps you did Curtis since it was not you who was being insulted. People seem to find humor and entertainment in the bruising of other's emotions it seems...which I find very sad.