Really I don't believe there is much we as mods can do for this. The site owner decides what goes, and being a free site it is what it is. The advertising banner at the top helps to pay for the bandwidth, so its not going anywhere...
Not to be harsh at all but waiting a few seconds or refreshing the pc seems a small price to pay for a site like we have.. its one of the most exstensive I have seen.
have you tried changing your screen resolution? Like the 800 x 600 etc. it may help. To be honest, I haven't really noticed a change of anything signifigant.. the site has been loading faster for me and is having no crashes..
I'll take lag over 20 minutes of down time 3 times a day....
thank for the inquery though, we always appreciate feedback, but there is little we can do. I am sure if Rabbit figures out a way or the site owner they will do their best to make this site the best it can be..
Anya