The way I see it, this thread has not been deleted/removed not because of its starter, but because it triggered such a deep and provocative discussion. Had a flame war erupted and failed to cease within a timely manner, I would assume that the thread would've been removed. Also, the topic shifted from this "manwhore" to a discussion on what is considered "fat" or "beautiful"; rather than focusing on material that is offensive, it turned into a simple exchange of opinions.