Thanks everyone, really made me feel at home, comfortable.. like there is noone judging you. Thats an amazing feeling- think I might be here for a long time!
Cariad. Haha yes def mixed up lol. I guess I'm a closet Sub/ switch? New Zealander (or Kiwi) who works in Iraq, I head over to the UK on leave (3 weeks off out of 12 weeks) as easier to travel around the world exploring from there.
Once again thanks and hopefully I can meet a interent Dom and I can develop and learn so much. Never know though, would love to meet a FemDom for real groannnnn.

Anyway take care and remember that which does not kill you only makes you stronger.
or...my personal favourite...
"life is not measured by the amount of breaths we take. Rather, by the moments that take our breath away"