Hi Sarai .That's quit a wish list but I know of what you speak (write) ,when I read your wants I thought wow this could be me . I don't think there is fantasy that I haven't explored in my mind at least
some I have convinced partners in real life to explore them with me usually as me being the submissive and having said that I can quit easily slip into the dominant one .
If you would like to give it a try with me ,please let me know by sending a private message and also let me know if you have any limits .You can distinguish between fantasy and reality
if you wish as other peeps fantasy's make interesting reading to say the least