Emotional attachment and Sex

[denuseri]

from the looks of all the different opinions i would have to say that the consensus is that there is no real consensus, sex and emotional attatchment appear to mean different things for different people, as simple as it seems its actually a complex prossess between two people, but hey its like whatever works for you is what works, my own personal view is hard to define, i get attached to different people all the time, some i have a stronger attatchment to than others,ive had multiple partners on several occassions and been prety much multi-partnered (even where my Husband/ Master is conserned) for many years, but of all the people ive been with and yes even loved, He is the one and only one i absolutly cannot detatch myself from emotionally , nor would i want too, but mabey its like the poet in my signiture says,, ,,,,,,,,,

[sidhewolf]

Well it seems I come here to cry and moan... Anyone got a pare of panties to wipe my face with? :P
It's a interesting unusual trend I've noticed. I guess for a man it's uncommon to associate sex with love. It takes me a while to recover emotionally after a sexual encounter... Anyway to fix that? The only option I see is to swear off sex until I find a partner but I don't think I can do that. I would imagine I'm not alone in this...

Plenty of panties here <G>. Do you prefer used or unused? <giggles>. A little humor <winks>.

For me, I don't have sex with someone I am not emotionally involved with for the most part. So for me also, it takes Time to recover if the Relationship goes badly, or isn't right for me or the other person. I don't think there is a "fix" for that, other then processing it.

"Swearing off sex" (with OP) for a time may be a good solution if you find you too are emotionally attached to those you have sex with. At least until you are more certain of the Relationship(s) you are getting into. It works for me anyways <winks>. Of course swearing off sex with OP is not near as much fun as having it. But then not having it when it puts you through too much drama and negativity is probly best? To each their own and their own and their own etc. Each person must decide what is best for them, their body, and their head.

Respectfully~SidheWolf