An evening of play (I hope)...

[Kelli]

So I'm sure some of you have seen my past posts about not being aroused by anything lately. Once I have insurance with my company I will definately see a dr, but for now, I have thought of something that might help "spice" things up. What still turns me on is seeing a girl bound, being forced to orgasm while being lightly whipped, over stimulated, orgasm denial, etc. I have a few vibes, but otherwise I'll need to get some things. What my plan is (right now at least), is to take off work early to beat him home, have an enama to make sure I'm cleaned out, take a hot bath with some oils, then strap a gag on, and tie myself to the bed. Course I would leave him a note out where he comes in so he knows what's going on. I'd also leave all the toys out, and let him have his way with me. I want to have some good toys, but my budget is kinda tight right now, so I'm thinking I can spend about $50 tops. I want to get a butt plug (not too huge), I'd love a hitachi wand, but that's outta the price range, a dildo, the gag, some lube, etc. If you have any ideas, I would really appreciate it! I haven't found a sex store in our area, so I'm kinda limited to Spencers, and general stores (Target, Walmart, etc). I was also thinking a flogger, but I've never experienced one. I don't want it to be too painful of a session, as I'm not even sure how I'll react to it. I'm thinking good, well b/c I'm really aroused writing this and planning it, but I just want to take it kinda slow. Any and all ideas are more than welcome! Maybe I can freeze something in the shape of a dildo as well? I'm a decent crafter, have a sewnig machine, and can make stuff if you can think of anything. Budget isn't high unfortunately, so I really wanna watch what I spend my $$ on.

[her_Joe]

How about the dollar store?

A hair brush, a clutch of bag clamps for the nipples and tender parts, and thou.

[princeofdenmark]

Go to a sporting goods store and buy a couple of weight-lifting arm bands, the kind with velcro. Those work well as wrists/ankle restraints, and you could attach a keychain or something else to it, and then use rope or chain. My girlfriend and I have done this, and it works quite well. While they're not exactly cheap (about $8 each), they cost far less than items designed for the purpose.

[MrJerseyGuy]

I've been following your posts for sometime now. I'm fortunate that I'm not limited by budget...but I have certainly been there. Having been on both sides of the scale, there is much to be said for making your own toys. Between Walmart, the grocery store and a hardware store you can make sex toys that would cost hundreds in a sex shop...and sometimes its more fun to make them than to just buy them. I recently made my g/f a speadrer out of a piece of wood, some I-bolts and rop that probably cost about $3. I could have purchased one off the internet for 10 times that much. But I got into putting it together myself. You can also put together some really great anal playtoys from the produce section for next to nothing. Carrots, cucumbers...stuff like that

Good luck, let us know how it works out.

[MrJerseyGuy]

Another good idea that i got from here...

Instead of buying a cane...have him walk you outside naked to clip a small branch from a tree for the same purpose. It's much more rewarding

[Kelli]

Thank you for all the wonderful ideas! I'm going to look around at the stores later today. Hopefully something will strike me!

[her_Joe]

Hopefully something will strike me!

One of us can handle that!

Btw, the silk rope costs a small fortune. Home Depot has soft woven nylon in 1/2" for a pretty easy price.

[meager]

I want to have some good toys, but my budget is kinda tight right now, so I'm thinking I can spend about $50 tops. I want to get a butt plug (not too huge), I'd love a hitachi wand, but that's outta the price range,

How about what I like to affectionally call an industrial strength trench digger: Oster Scientific Massage Modality Model M1. Get them on eBay for $10 to $40. Barbers used to use them on guys' heads. I bought one at a garage sale in 1972 for 25 cents. Bought another on eBay for $12. Make sure you get the M1 model. The others don't have the mass to really get you begging.

a dildo,

Think vegetables like cucumber or zucchini. Eggplant for the truly adventurous.

the gag,

Socks or panties and a scarf or pantyhose or duct tape.

some lube,

Crisco!

etc.

Home Depot or as we perverts like to call it, DOM Depot.

If you have any ideas, I would really appreciate it! I haven't found a sex store in our area, so I'm kinda limited to Spencers, and general stores (Target, Walmart, etc).

No you're not. There are hundreds of sex toy websites these days.

I was also thinking a flogger, but I've never experienced one. I don't want it to be too painful of a session, as I'm not even sure how I'll react to it.

Buy a used one at http://www.naughtybids.com/ or any other adult auction site. Or make own yourself. Buy an old leather shirt or skirt at a used clothing store and piece of wooden doweling at Dom Depot.

I'm a decent crafter, have a sewnig machine, and can make stuff if you can think of anything.

The WWW is your friend. There are dozens of websites devoted to this very subject like: URL=http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=res&uid=default&category=TOY+MAKING&view _records=View+Records]BDSM Resources: TOY MAKING[/URL]


Andy