I took the big step of joining and becoming less of a lurker. I have been reading the stories for some time and particularly love stories where the wife and husband are forced to be submissive either through trickery, arrogance or foolishness.
Im 39 and married though my older husband who is very (extremely) conservative has no idea of the things I fantasize about. I love to role play and have had a couple of affairs with men that have treated me roughly.