Hello,

I think I have a very specific person I'm looking for. First off, I used to be in the lifestyle but got out of it for a few reasons. I find lately that I miss it a lot and want to try my hand at an online "relationship".

I've never submitted to a girl before but I admit the idea quite turns me on so I'm definitely interested in a female dominant or male. I'm not looking to be degraded or be a doormat, but rather find someone who is capable of having meaningful conversations but who is controlling, sadistic, yet understanding.

Another interest I have is a dominant who is willing to help me make dieting and exercise a bit more interesting. I currently work out nearly everyday but the idea of having goals to meet (I'd like to lose about 50-60 more pounds) or else face punishment is interesting to me and something I'd like to explore.

I'm a busy professional with an extracurricular life (sports and school) so I don't have an overwhelming amount of time, but I do have most evenings free to talk/perform tasks/etc. I guess I just miss the control. I also enjoy pain and bondage, slight humiliation.

Ideally I'd like to serve someone (male or female) within my age range (20s, lower 30s). Pictures are fine but for now I'd be more comfortable not to show my face. Email/IM/text (after I feel comfortable giving you my phone number) is what I am seeking. I guess I'm seeking someone with experience and who is interested in the above.

Thanks for your time.