Congrats to you both. Long distance can be difficult but it can and does work out. Four hours is not that bad.
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Congrats to you both. Long distance can be difficult but it can and does work out. Four hours is not that bad.
Aww, you guys are really great!
I'm just going to take deep breaths and take it as it comes to me. Last night I had some anxiety, but I think everything will be fine. If anyone has any ideas for long distance relationships, all is welcome. We both understand that communication is the big one. :) But I am sure that some of you have figured out ways to make it slightly easier. He and I have already been brainstorming, lol.
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I go away for a bit and lovely things like this happens.
Congratulations to you both!
Happiness cant be enjoyed in too big doses so make sure you 2 enjoy it fully :)
Hurray! How wonderful - i'm hoping it's all going well.
My Master and i still live in different cities - for various reasons external to the relationship itself - but it's been wonderful for seven years and we civil partnership'd last July - so it can be done! Yay!
The distance is only a problem if you allow it to be....it can act as a lense to magnify otherwise insignificant problems. the best thign to do there is as you say communicate. Get on the phone asap and talk about it while it's a tiny niggle.
Also the truth is you might have sacrifice something for the relatiomship. When we first met, i played rugby every weekend, and for the first season He was wonderful - came to the matches and generally was a supportive rugby widow. But as we only got to see each other at weekends, i realised as things got serious i was going to have to choose, and it wasn't going to be rugby. Shame but worth it for the love of one's life! :D
Besides, i needed to spend more time at His feet!
Under your spell again
I can't say no to you
crave my heart and its bleeding in your hand
I can't say no to you
Shouldn't have let you torture me so sweetly
now I can't let go of this dream
I can't breathe but I feel
Good enough
I feel good enough for you
Drink up sweet decadence
I can't say no to you
and I've completely lost myself and I don't mind
I can't say no to you
Shouldn't have let you conquer me completely
now I can't let go of this dream
can't believe that I feel
Good enough
I feel good enough
its been such a long time coming, but I feel good
and I'm still waiting for the rain to fall
pour real life down on me
cause I can't hold on to anything this good
enough
am I good enough
for you to love me too?
so take care what you ask of me
cause I can't say no
Evanescence - Good Enough
I just thought it was pretty amazing how fitting this song is... :)
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Just for the record, not ALL of it applies. Most of it does though.
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