Another new one.....

Hi..........

I'm new here........ new to this life, whatever that will be. I'm recently divorced and am taking this opportunity to explore my fantasies - a thing I've never done before. I've discovered so far that fantasy and reality aren't necessarily the same thing! I expect you all already know that. I only just found it out.

I feel safe on-line - I had a couple of scares in reality, so I've ditched that avenue.

I fantasise about strong, powerful men and women, being humiliated, being dominated. I've role-played on another site, and often enjoyed it very much, but I've registered here because this place seems to specialise in the sort of things I'd like to explore. I hope to meet some understanding, patient, compatible people.

rockchick, welcome to the forum,

Let Me be the first to welcome you and wish you a lot of fun around here, which certainly won't be hard to find as most of the members are living online as wonderful group of friends...


Kind Greetings
M@ster

welcome to the family...come in and sit down we are a friendly bunch. Don't hesitate to ask questions and don't give up on real life the number of fantasies you can live are endless.

Oh goody - another one!

Hello rockchick, I am sorry to hear about your divorce and hope that you are moving on from it in all ways.

Am also sorry to hear about your real life scares with bdsm, and pleased to see they have not scared you so deeply that you have buried your fantasies.

This is a great place to learn about the lifestyle, both r/l and online, there is a mixture of people here from both communities, and with the whole range of breadth and depth of experiences.

The forums are a safe place, mainly because they are open and members are supported primarily by the community, and also by the team of mods and supermods. Beyond here, I would warn you to take care, although you are unlikely to be physically hurt from an online relationship, mental pain can be much greater, as many will attest to. I have a mail box filled with the evidence of broken hearts and dreams. Online can be very, very real, which can be a negative, but, as I trust you have found when playing elsewhere, a big, big plus.

I hope you have found the following threads. They are great starting points, the first is full of good advice, the second is a humourous look at what is often seen on line, but none the less, has some excellent guidance. Just so you know when reading the second one, a wannabe, is someone who knows very little about the lifestyle, probably has even less experience, but implies otherwise.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4529
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5363

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Originally Posted by rockchick

I hope to meet some understanding, patient, compatible people.

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I sincerely hope that is the case because if it is not, we will all have failed.

:welcomebo

cariad

Hello rockchick and welcome! I think you'll find, as cariad said, that there's lots of friendly people around here. Good luck with your explorations.

:wave: rockchick to the Library. I'm sure you will have a wonderful time here. Best of luck to you. :)

Hello again rockchick...we met earlier in chat...happy you have introduced yourself. I am confident you will enjoy yourself here and learn all you need to know...if you have any questions...there is always someone here with the answer.

Hi & welcome rockchic, nice intro.

Sorry to hear of your troubles, as the lovely cari says online has it's ugly side as well, but the forum is a pretty safe place.

Hope you find just what you're looking for here.:wave:

Tojo

Hi rockchick!

I love your nick. I hope you find us all supportive in your meanderings through this site. If you need people to chat to-this I can tell you from my experiences, is the place to be.

Hope to chat to you in the chatroom some time.

Ed.

Welcome aboard, hopefully we can help you explore the things you want to explore... and maybe show you a couple of new ones while we are at it.

Hiya rockchick and :wel to the forums! Have fun exploring the madhouse...;)

Welcome to the forums,

As you have seen already, we are a friendly bunch here. Hope you find it a fun place to explore.

Aussiegirl

hey there! Welcome!!!!

Sera