What is the most embarrassing situation you’ve ever been in during BDSM play?

For me it would have to be where i got my name from. Before i became pissy-boy i was known as sissy-boy. i accepted a task assigned to me by a FemDom I met on another forum. I was tasked with drinking two litres of water and then going for a walk until I felt the urge to pee. Once that happened, i was to immediately wet myself in public, and then walk home. Luckily, at the time i lived in a small village that was pretty much just a street. i was able to walk out into the countryside surrounding the village and perform the task. The embarrassment came when i was walking back home along the road. i don’t remember how many cars went by, but as each one did, they would have had a very good look at me, and the large wet patch on the front of my pants leading down my left leg. When i reported the task completed, the same FemDom who issued the task remarked that i should be called pissy-boy from now on, and so i am.

So what do you think was your most embarrassing experience?

uhm... it was when Master was told specifically by a dungeon monitor that there have been complaints about me being "too loud" when we play so I'm not allowed to play at play parties unless I'm gagged.

Haha, being too loud is a thing to be proud of! But...I guess there's a time and a place for everything.

I forgot about this, but when I first went away to college I had a boyfriend for all of three weeks, when I bit his neck too hard and marked him good. He was mortified, wouldn't come out of his room for two days, and promptly dumped me for being a "freak" (though he was fine with being tied up and bitten before that *shrugs*). I would like to say I've never gotten carried away since then...but I did learn my lesson fairly well, I think. *blushes* His room mate gave me weird looks for the next year or so...

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Originally Posted by Jennifer Williams

and promptly dumped me for being a "freak" (though he was fine with being tied up and bitten before that *shrugs*).

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While it's an unfair thing to say (my ex called me a freak once when he found some of the things I wanted to try), I think it's just a matter of while he liked it, he didn't like others knowing he liked it, and a mark on the neck means anyone who sees him would know and/or ask about it.

I think my most embarrassing moment was on a date with my current boyfriend where he had me half naked at a park (it was dark, at least) before I got my wits about me and we stopped and I got dressed. I was frazzled for a good week or so after that. I was embarrassed that I had little to no self control when I am typically, well, a good girl! lol Plus, I put myself in a situation where he could have easily overpowered me or prevented me from getting re-dressed, and I'm usually MUCH smarter than that.

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Originally Posted by openyoureyes

Plus, I put myself in a situation where he could have easily overpowered me or prevented me from getting re-dressed,

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He would do that, and you're still with this person? The minute you stop consenting to the activity (such as public nudity in this case), the activity should be over immediately.

For me I was mortified when I was in a scene with new dom who was a friend of the lady I regularly scened with and she had loaded up my nipples with clips and then hung larger and larger weights on them (oh bliss) she had turned away to get another weight and as she turned back I felt one of the clamps start to slip off and before I could warn her it landed on her right toe - unfortunately she was wearing strappy high heeled sandals and her toes were exposed! It was a very heavy weight - and she ended up hoping round the dungeon rubbing her foot - I was so embarrassed for two reasons, I had not warned her and of course for her as it was the first time she had met me and she didn't want me to think she was a clumsy practitioner! When I told my regular lady she couldn't stop laughing! Ian.

I replied to this one before the site crashed & my post got deleted, but in my opinion (I know this is silly) the most embarrassing thing for me is when Master sinks his cock into my pussy when I'm at an odd angle & it's been filled with air causing that inevitably loud pussy fart (or whatever the technical term is for it). This is so incredibly distracting & embarrassing for me!!!

Hahaha! Oh man, times like that are the worst. I believe the official term is 'queef'. Are guys as absolutely revolted by that as oneself is?

No... Master actually did that to me on purpose for i think an entire 15 minutes a few days ago... even though it was only the two of us i was embarrassed and mortified every time it made that horrible embarrassing gross queef sound. And the more i squirmed and whimpered about being embarrassed by that, the more He did it until i kind of got over it, or at least stopped squirming and trying to run to the other side of the room every time it happened.