who says you camt have your first time more then once?

i am repopping this area's cherry. . .i remember last time i came close and missed. So here's to the re-popping of this cherry.

Question:

When it comes to likes in the bdsm world. Is it normal when a person only wants to (in public/group setting) only talk about one or two of their likes? i know we're always expanding our own base of knoweldge, but i find when i go out i really only focus on bondage and maybe one other thing (my goal fo the night along the lines of play/learning).

Is that normal? And if it is, then why do i get a bunch of funny looks when i'm asked: what do you like? and my answer is: Bondage.

~j~