Hi Headman. Ok, are you trying to turn me on or what :lol. Not sure if I'd actually orgasm though, may have to try that one Thanks for the email address, I've added it to my MSN (carichocolate)
I do know where I would like to use those whips and spanker. The riding crop on an open pussy gently tapping away for ages bringing you so a slow orgasm sounds like fun. If you want to email me direct then I am on headman22 at hotmail do co dot uk, either msn chat or direct email with the same address
The first thing that you can do to have some humiliation is to say "Thank you for using me" everytime you get fucked. Being tied up and asked to be spanked sounds like a good idea to me, and I know how can do that easily even if you dont have any special equipment available. What were you spanked with? any particular thing or was it just a hand? Do you have any thoughts about what you would like your ass reddened with?
What you said makes total sence, no point in pushing too far too quick. What I like best from BDSM is having my sub under my control and humiliating her. I want her to beg me for things, eg to be allowed to cum, to fuck her. Also I enjoy the humiliation of taking a female out and making her cum in public. What sort of thing gets you wet the most?
What are you looking to learn, I hope I can help you learn more and I hope you accept my friend invite