But TG always asks me if I am okay during a scene...and about 50 times at any given times of the day. LOL

I would seriously re-evealuate what this relationship is about. If it is causign you harm then it should not be done, simple as that. Any experienced Dominant with human compassion and common sense would realize that.

I wold lay down the law. As a submissive, you do have the right to do that if it concerns your own personal health. You are not an object, you are not an automaton. You are a human being with feelings and quirks and not being able to shave down there is yours.

If he will not listen to reason. Get away from him.