hi scarlet,

i think you should have a serious think about your relationship (at least in a D/s sense) with this person....in both my experience and personal opinion, the welfare of the sub is VERY important to a good Dom...this is important in any relationship, but obviously especially important in one of a D/s nature. A large part of D/s is based on trust....and part of that trust is that which the sub puts in the Dom to makes reasonable decisions regarding their health and welfare....to completely disregard your concerns and recent experience is to completely abuse that trust and greatly weakens the bond between you anyway; you cannot be truely sub to someone you don't fully trust.

HTH and let us know how it goes.

sl