when a dom wants to harm you....

[ACommittedSadist]

Hello scarletakb,

First of all under no circumstances should you “just do what he says, and suffer the consequences”. This is a rough start to your relationship and it may indicate trouble ahead. If you have found your lover (and now Dom) to be an otherwise trustworthy and loving person then I would sit down with him (as an equal) and try to talk this through. But if he will not come around on this issue, or if you really do think the may start acting without regard for your health, then you need to be ready to leave. Being your Dom does NOT give him the right to endanger your health or well-being. I know when I take a submissive her health and happiness are the first things on my mind always.

Best Wishes
YoungDomLooking