I've made many online and offline friends here. But it took two years before anyone was willing to meet me. It takes a consistent message and a consistent presence. 3 posts won't do it. Chatting (only) won't do it.

Stick around. Particpate and contribute. Be prepared to talk to plenty of posers and wannabees who may not actually follow through with an in-the-flesh meeting. Patience.

If that doesn't work, feel free to ask this question again in a couple of years.