It took me nearly two years to gain enough credibility here to start inspiring enough confidence in others that I was safely meetable. Now perhaps subs don't need that much leadtime, but dominants who instantly contact everyone who is looking, perhaps need further scrutiny.

The personals are great but not really effective, imo, without also participating in the forums and/or the chat room... and being the forum conversations have persistance, that's the venue that allows others to get to know you by your opinions.

So... (now going on) two months isn't really all that long of a time, even in "online" time... and only 5 posts... constitutes barely a ripple in the online pond.