Quote Originally Posted by scarlet_85 View Post
I had posted a thread about struggling with being a submissive vs. bring a lover. A few people had suggested that I set boundaries on when I am in that submissive role. For instance, saying Sundays are my day off. This allows you to breathe a little while still respecting the M/s relationship.
Sounds reasonable to me. If you (generic) keep pushing yourself too much, you might end up, over time, being burnt out of the whole relationship.