I know I am new here, and not to jump on anyones band wagon.But you say she is a "smoking buddy" so if you are friends why don't you just ask her out ? I mean you go on about how she is sexually and emotionally repressed, so you either know her really well, or you're grasping at straws. Like the others stated you are looking at trouble, you might also check your works HR rules, I worked in a place one time where any dating between 2 people on the job was Auto. Termination. So before you go leaping because of an erotic fantasy I would do some leg work and checking around first. Oh and even if yu send it Annom. doesn't mean it wouldnt be traceable. Best of luck and let us know how it goes though