I honestly do not know why you would make such a derogatory statement about those who identify as slaves thir.

I wasn't presenting anything from any paticular point of view.

Ive never seen such as you just implied or represented on this or any other forum at any time in such an insulting manner conserning the community.

Ive have myself been a slave now in a TPE-24/7 for a little over 4 years and have never had trouble taking care of myself (quite the opposite in fact) nor have I had issues knowing what to do with myself and truth be told have found most actual r/l slaves to be much the same.

I have also in previous years run the full gambit of different types of bdsm and vanila relationships and have found a marked and distinct difference to exist in the various emotional intensity levels they produce which is why I responded as I did to the OP to point out that bdsm relationships are indeed not all the same, nor should one expect them to be so as they involve considerabily different aspects of human phycology at work within them.