I'm just gonna throw it out there that I'm not number 11 or number 4 for the other Dom. I'm not the person to go "My friend" when the friend is me.

I appericate what both of You say and find it helpful and enlightful.

I find that poly relationships can be very confusing.

-Densueri what you said , in my opinion, the best way to start into a poly relationship.
-Lucy what you said was not only helpful but humorous. When you break it down to point seconds. ( Math major that I am) I find the time alone with just one a day is..well... it sounds very lonesome.

I thank You both very much.