i have experienced fire play several times...i enjoy it very much...i suppose the 'fear factor' has much to do with my liking of this particular activity. when one is bound..helpless...and there are trails of fire running around breasts, nipples..belly....oh my..hard to describe the things that run thru one's mind...important however, that submissive and Dominant KNOW...what they are doing. saw a nasty accident once....someone was burned quite badly and had to be taken to the emergency room...not..easy to explain <chuckle>