In answer to your first question... Hell. Fucking. Yes. But I'm sure you are already getting that from the previous responses to your post. I just wanted to add some more on the other question you asked...

Quote Originally Posted by bambina View Post
Quick question. Is it possible to cum through direct stimulation alone (masturbation) without fantasizing? I've always fantasized while masturbating but I could never concentrate if I were in the middle of 'the act'. Could I still cum without the fantasizing?
Hell yes. I didn't think so for years and years! I was convinced that even during sex and when I was involved in any other sexual activity (like oral, etc), I would have to fantasize in order to cum. And I did do so, for a long time (My fantasies often involved the same person and similar situation but much much darker, more devious circumstances...). About a year ago I met the most wonderful man, and I never have to fantasize when I'm with Him. I'm just *there*, with Him, I can't possibly fantasize, so much to do... feeling, touching, moaning, stroking, grabbing, experiencing, listening, craving, begging, pleasing... submitting... loving Him and feeling that all encompassing thrill when He is grabbing and pulling and groaning and pushing... hard... the thrill of His pleasure stronger than mine, urging mine... cumming

So yay! No more being half checked-out during sex. When I'm fucking Him, I am 100% there and nowhere else. I think it may also have something to do with my feelings for Him. Oh, and of course, his super-fantastico, beyond-amazing bedroom abilities...

Now I can cum while masturbating without fantasizing easily, if I watch porn. I don't have to think about it, I just look, wank, and cum. But, it sucks and is absolutely no fun - more for when I am feeling lazy (and oddly, usually drunk. lol).