Quote Originally Posted by SilverWulf View Post
I think you may have read my post wrong.

There are more than you can imagine. They are simply hidden in the shadows because of the derision they would receive if they were to admit their desires publicly.
I recall an old school dom (I used to say "old guard" but I finally got too tired of arguing the antecedents that led to that term so I gave up; well sorta) telling me that perfectly good pain should never be wasted.

Original Poster: The most important thing that has been said is suggesting you find your own place. Don't worry about the labels, don't worry about the self-appointed political correctness judges. What's right for you and yours is just fine.