Quote Originally Posted by blythespirit View Post
I'm trying to understand this as well. Topping/bottoming is a game you play online or in r/l? D/s is a lifestyle?
Topping/bottoming is done in real life, face to face with someone you are playing with. I would have a very hard time imagining a true Top/bottom interaction online (ok, other than some of the games that go on here in chat... lol).

D/s is most definitely a lifestyle for some people. For some, it permeates their everyday life in ways they cannot even define.