I moved this thread to the knowledge base, since you'll probably get more input on your question here, nastywolf.

I'm glad you decided to jump right in... to the forums!!

About your question...I don't know lifestylers in r/l but I'm always on the lookout. And sometimes I come across people that seem to have that 'certain something' - not necessarily a BDSM background but a general dominant or submissive attitude, way of carrying themselves, a certain tone of voice...could be anything really. Maybe that is what the people who thought of you as a Dom had felt as well.

Now, if you also enjoy BDSM and are dominant by nature obviously...you just might be a Dom...or at least have a good foundation for becoming one.

Have fun!
Silke