I developed by figuring out that I enjoy having others under my control, my teachings. I figured out that I didn't like the other side of that coin. I didn't like being told what to do (doing what Im told at work doesnt apply to this). I enjoy details, enjoy spanking someone, I don't enjoy the reverse.

For me, thats how I know.

I hope your self discovery, and education into the lifestyle is a positive one.

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