Sodomy, sex or submission?

[Arria]

It can be both.
It depends on how it´s done.

[Rowdy]

isn't it sexual submission?
whenever I ride a gf from behind they always suffer pain and bleeding
she always seems to get off from it
I've never sodomized anyone who didn't give their full consent

[Hime]

It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.

Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it?

[Ozme52]

It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.

Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it?

Certainly not from his perspective.

But yeah Hime. That's hot from the top.