i can appreciate that,much as i love them i wouldnt want them 24/7 but what im saying is that you cant expect not to have them either sometimes no matter how careful you are it's going to happen, hell i can get a bruise just from bumping into the coffee table lol ...but what im asking is why not think much of it until the next day?


Quote Originally Posted by SubChaser View Post
The endorphines submissive sexual situations creates is extremely addictive.
im sorry but what do endorphins have to do with it? yes you could argue it's addictive but only in the sense that you want it to happen again the next time you play or when it's happening and you dont want it to stop .we've probably all been there lol..but that doesnt mean that you're going to go back to someone simply to get that high again! im totally lost with that line of reasoning.

and im still lost with the sentence that ''before I knew it we had a "safe word".? wouldnt you have a safeword in place BEFORE play? and if you needed to use it then why be so surprised? isnt thats why its there?
i know im asking a lot of questions sorry but im tired and therefore probably totally misunderstanding everything but..i still had to ask lol