Quote Originally Posted by bambina View Post
Snowflake

No I can't say BDSM turns me on. I get excited. I get the feelings you get right before you go on a roller coaster. That anxious feeling while I fantasize about rape and such. But no, I am not turned on by any of it. I don't get wet and I've never orgasmed from thoughts of bdsm. BDSM is fun. Not a turn on.

So now I'm worried. Maybe I am just one of those people who likes kinky things in the bedroom and nothing more. Perhaps I'm not hardcore enough to be part of this community. Say it aint so. I hope that's not the case. But, then again, it's too early to decide. I hardly have any experience.

Edit: And no I'm not MIssconfused. I'm sure lots of women fantasize while masturbating. I'm just one who HAS to fantasize in order to orgasm.
bambina who confused you with me?
It wasn't because of what I said about masturbation was it?

I keep thinking I should have phrased that "only a man can masturbate while thinking of other things"

PLEASE forgive me if I insulted you in anyway