bambina I am still very curious why you call these "acts?"
This is very real to all of us here
I am new and have followed only one command thus far but my experience was not an act. I experienced real bondage and humiliation.
In case you are wondering I felt more ALIVE than I have in several decades.
The commands drove me to my limits and beyond and I succeeded!

I ask that some gentle dom give you a command for you to perform
I believe you will find this is not an act