ive had my fair share of plain ol' sex, like Flaming Redhead put it, and to me it just doesnt do it for me, my mind starts to wander and think of other things, like taking a shower, hanging out with friends, Brad Pitt on occasion.


Im like hopperboo and Flaming_Redhead, i love to be spanked, held down, tied up, humliated, intimidated, fear and SOME pain get me going in the worst way. I need to stay in that mind frame throughout sex, i have never cum before period, but when i do have regualr old sex, like i said above i get disinterested and get bored, and or dry to the bone.

The kinkyness needs to stay steady or i wont be into it, is what im trying to say. No i do not think i can cum from just one thing, like being tied down or just spanked. Yes, it turns me on very much so but i dont think i can cum just from that.