Are people really super turned on my BDSM acts?

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...Or are they just fun?

But I was just wondering if people actually got super excited by BDSM or if it's just fun. If men and women can really cum just by being tied up...or if it's just a fun activity to do before or during sex.

Some women like to be spanked. But do spankings make them have an orgasm?

I'm not turned on or wet.

The idea of being held down, or tied down for me is a huge turn on.

And the idea of spanking (among other things) is a HUGE turn on too.


Fun? Yes, I think it would be that too, but I'd also want times when it wasn't so 'light hearted.' If that makes any sense.

I haven't experienced any of these, but just from reading alone...I can say yes, it's a turn on for me. I hope that r/t can be just as - and hopefully more - exhilarating.