Is it really an underlying need, though, that's triggered...or more the general dynamic of a D/s relationship? I mean, even the most mundane activities or things I really don't enjoy outside of this context become sexually charged and a big turn on when doing it for my Master. I'm pretty sure there's no underlying need or desire to do those things in and out of themselves, but it's the thought of doing it for him, of pleasing him, and the way he associates them with pleasure, that creates this desire in me.

It's interesting to look at how this works...blows my mind every time - ESPECIALLY when there are activities involved that make me go 'what the fuck is wrong with me for enjoying this?'. It makes me laugh...and makes me realize how much power he has over me and my reactions.