I myself do not care what other's think, they have their own problems juggeling the events of everyday life. I was at one time in your shoes, it was when my master passed, that I adapted the thought that I am what I am, and if people cannot live with that, then so be it. Thank you for your candid statement, it does not take a slave to post the truth, it takes an honest person, one that is in tune with herself and not the wishes of others.
Keep this ideal and you will enjoy many times over the arrangement that you have, I did for nineteen years.

Mistress H