Every time i was entertaining fantasies they had a submissive/humiliating or just downright nonconsentual subtext.
Let's be careful here and not confuse nonconsensual fantasies, like rape, with consensual bdsm submission. There is a difference.

And so far the journey into my submissiveness is totally awesome, even if most of the stuff we do probably is still rather vanilla.
Vanilla or bdsm doesn't matter. They are merely labels. The most important consieration is, do you enjoy it, and awesome answers that question.

Me, i completely disagree, but then again, he's the Dom so i guess he's right.
How could I possibly disagree with that comment