Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
May I suggest, as an experiment... that you get a safeword and promise to use it if you are in trouble physically or emotionally....

And see if that doesn't somehow create a step-up in intensity.

I go much much farther knowing she will protect herself than I would just on my own volition. The scenes are edgier and the experience hotter and more intense. I've always maintained that her safeword is more for my benefit than hers...

If it doesn't make a difference in your play, then you can always drop it again.

Its a lovely idea , but there is one little problem; and I am embarrassed to have to admit it, but I am a chicken when it comes to pain, . Lets say caning, at the hard intensity He usually does it, I would safeword in the first ten minutes, (oh, ok - in the first five, ) LOL.

But its so nice to know you are thinking of me, .


Adri