Acceptable or No?

[Ragoczy]

In my opinion, not an acceptable course of events.

If safewords exist, they must be honored without consequences, else they're meaningless and an inherent trust has been violated.

Also, even in a "no limits" relationship, there are implied limits. I'd have to know the details of the command to determine if I thought the command itself violated those.

A caveat to this would be the type of safeword -- I use two: one that means "stop now, too far or something's wrong" and another that's a request to stop or lighten the intensity. I may accept the latter or not at my discretion.