Hm. Covert public play is kind of fun, but it's because you could get caught. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want to get caught, though.

I guess I tend to think of exhibitionism as being more overt and it definitely has a stigma attached to it.

I guess, like lots of other things, there's a continuum and there's points where it's OK and then there's a line, which is different for everybody, where it becomes not OK.