Quote Originally Posted by Silke
My own guess so far is 'pretty damn far' since even the things I used to dread have ended up making me wet. Sometimes I look at that and freak, lol. It can be a scary thing to see yourself for what you are when you never really took the time and effort to really look before.
Don't you think pressing or extending your limits is partially due to gaining experience and confidence plus ultimate trust in your Dom? I feel certain you would back off your limits somewhat if you were just getting acquainted with a new Dom. The activities probably would still make you wet but with someone new you may be understandably apprehensive at first. This, at least, would be my way of thinking.