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[blythe spirit]

Well, here I am again and seeing as this thread goes in and out of topic, guess I'll have my Tom reBUTTal. *giggles*


TOM wrote: But nobody ever has, and you won't? Has this happened to anybody? Ever? How isn't this just pure paranoia? But I don't think it's paranoia. I think you're just being shy but not admitting it to yourself. There's nothing wrong with being shy. I think it is very cute in moderate doses. We've all been in a situation where we've been shy and had to over-come it. We can all empathise. Just admit it! You won't lose anything.

So you've got nothing fear, have you? Embrace your shyness. It's useless to deny it. It's not like anybody is going to think anything else are they? Either people will think that you're bullshitting or a little bit cute. What do you think will play to your advantage in the long run?

Truly, Tom, I have no idea how it is in Sweden, but in America there's always some scandal on the news about people getting "caught" on the internet. With me, it most likely is paranoia, because the girl ain't shy - with words or actions. lol

And even though I find what you say extremely patronizing, I still have to shake my head and laugh out loud, because the way your mind works is sooooooo "cute." But even more humorous to me is that you know you're right. hehe

A thought just occurred to me, I wonder if men feel that they don't have to post pics, because there are, in comparison, fewer men than women? The reasoning behind this is that women often times "settle" for less than their ideal due to the shortage. Maybe that's why women post their pics more. I don't know - hehe- it made sense in my brain whilst I was thinking it. rofl.

Well, I'm taking my cute little butt and my opinon off the soap box now.

[TomOfSweden]

Truly, Tom, I have no idea how it is in Sweden, but in America there's always some scandal on the news about people getting "caught" on the internet. With me, it most likely is paranoia, because the girl ain't shy - with words or actions. lol

At no point have I been talking about naked pictures. I'm just talking about regular holiday-type shots. Pictures like that couldn't offend the most easily aroused amateur-porn-surfing Bible thumper.

No, I'm not patronising. When groups of people agree on a comfortable lie and pat each others backs ensuring each other it is true, I feel it needs to be crushed before it spreads. Because I actually like seeing other peoples pictures here. If somebody who wasn't shy wants to post their pic here and hear and believe your opinion that you think it's better not to see their photo, we won't see the pic. And that I think is bad. This is a very obvious comfortable lie. The less of these the better IMHO.

Its not a question of goading anybody to post pics. If you don't want to post your picture on-line I'll respect that. I don't look down on anybody who doesn't. Just don't make up stories to make yourself feel better about not wanting to post it. That's all I ask.