Quote Originally Posted by Silke

... I think it's a hell of an adventure as long as I'm with someone who I trust with all my heart to leave any hard limits out of the game. Knowing that helps me to enjoy the ride in the grey zone, pushing the soft limits and seeing where the journey will lead to.
This was the point I was going to make. And the same as the post by Oz. There are a huge range of reasons to enjoy an activity ... not sure it matters why you do enjoy it.

I wonder if what you're really asking (yourself) is: am I still an alright person because I would enjoy ________? Or: is it okay for me to do something so weird for -_____ and to enjoy it?

In both cases, as well as in what you said, I would say YES ... for a different answer, as your mom, or a pastor, or .... you know.

hJ