Most of my family know nothing and I intend to keep it that way...my adult daughter, I think, suspects that mom has a bit of a kinky side, and as open as our relationship is (I would talk to her about it if she were to ask) she has never asked anything and I offer nothing to her.

My friends, for the most part, know but their knowledge is very limited, anytime they approach me with questions I am happy to explain things to them as well as I can without going into too much personal detail. I find that being open and honest with them has helped them to understand me better and in that, they accept my quirks and love me for who I am

If it were up to me, this would not be something that I would hide from anyone...it's who I am, but, as with many things, I do not want to expose people to things they do not want to be exposed to.