I Agree with the sentiment that what happens in my private life is just that.

I really don't think that many if any of my family or friends would understand... but then again I may be wrong.

Sex has been openly discussed from one side of the family but I still don't think that they would make the connection.

The thing that that I am most unsure about is that my life long best friend does not know and I am not sure if I should ever tell him or if he would understand?