my family, and all of my r/l friends (including my best friend) have no clue about this side of me, and very few online know as well, i could count them on one hand...

and as far as "keeping the secret", yes, of course i do...but then again, it wouldn't be anyones business anyway, even if i was into vanilla missionary sex....can i relate to my vanilla friends when we're giggling in the corner about the vibrator that accidently got left out last night, and my child asked about it as it lay on the nightstand? yes, i can...but do i announce that i used it anally while fantasizing about what Master did to me yesterday with the ice cube and hot wax on my clit?? um, no....

Karen